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Review: "Bicara Itu Ada Seninya" by Oh Su Hyang

Book Information

• Title: Bicara Itu Ada Seninya

• Author: Oh Su Hyang

• Publisher: Bhuana Ilmu Populer

• Publication Year: 2021

• Genre: Non-Fiction

• Category: Self-Development

• Pages: 238

• ISBN: 9786230404306

Introduction

Book Synopsis

Do you know that speaking is an art?

As communication becomes crucial in competition, communication expert Oh Su Hyang presents a highly valuable book. In addition to discussing personal development experiences, this book delves into communication, persuasion, and negotiation techniques.

So, what does it mean to speak well? Is it about clear articulation? Or speaking without pausing for breath? No! A good speech is one that touches the heart. The speech of a champion has a unique charm. A host's words can liven up the atmosphere. You must master speaking skills to present yourself effectively in social life. Those who speak well often advance faster than others. To achieve successful communication, persuasion, and negotiation, you need to understand efficient communication methods.

This book is structured to be easily understood by anyone. You will learn from the experiences of well-known individuals and discover the core secrets of communication. If you read it carefully, your confidence in speaking will naturally grow.

Content

"Bicara Itu Ada Seninya" by Oh Su Hyang explores speaking and communication techniques. Written by a renowned professor and communication expert from South Korea, this book reveals the secrets of effective communication that make the listener feel comfortable and engaged.

The book consists of five chapters covering key aspects of speaking, such as storytelling techniques, negotiation, and methods to gain the listener’s support. It is intended for anyone who wants to develop strong communication skills.

Strengths and Weaknesses of the Book

Strengths

1. Provides various self-improvement experiences
   The author shares personal experiences and those of others she has encountered.
   Example:
   "A university student who dreamed of entering a beauty pageant came to me. She had an attractive physique and face. Moreover, there seemed to be no apparent issues with her speech. Her voice was soft and stable. The problem was in her speech structure—it was disorganized. She was not used to thinking logically, so her words sounded disconnected."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya:8)

2. Offers practical communication, persuasion, and negotiation techniques applicable to daily life
   Example:
   "This formula summarizes the key persuasion principles from several communication experts:
   P = P × S × T
   Where:
   P = Persuasion
   P = Punch (Impact)
   S = Sympathize
   T = Touch
   Businesspeople, presenters, negotiators, and employees who wish to persuade others must remember these three elements."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya;76)

3. Presents easy-to-understand and applicable information
   Example:
   "I often see couples struggling in their relationships due to poor communication. They tend to talk more and expect their partner to listen, but true communication doesn’t happen this way. In dialogue, there is a '1-2-3' rule: speak once, listen twice, and provide feedback three times. Listening and responding are key."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya;50)

4. Includes insights from famous communication experts
   Example:
   "This formula summarizes the key persuasion principles from several communication experts:
   P = P × S × T
   Where:
   P = Persuasion
   P = Punch (Impact)
   S = Sympathize
   T = Touch."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya; 76)

5. Provides real-life examples from the author’s experiences in creating effective communication
   Example:
   "Therefore, I developed a communication therapy formula that can be easily applied in daily life, based on my consultation experiences. The formula is simple:
   C = Q × P × R
   Where:
   C = Communication
   Q = Question
   P = Praise
   R = Reaction
   Communication requires three elements: questioning, praising, and reacting."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya; 46)

6. Includes practical solutions for readers in each communication technique provided
   Example:
   *"How to Train Logical Speaking:

   • Provide the right reasons for your arguments.

   • Avoid exaggerated logic jumps.

   • Maintain consistency in attitude.

   • Use simple words and stay calm."*
     (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya:10-12)

Weaknesses

1. Some communication techniques may not be universally effective
   Since individuals have different approaches to mastering communication techniques and varying thought patterns, some methods may not work for everyone.
   Example:
   "There are certain phrases women say that men dislike. Two of them are 'Isn't this pretty?' and 'Have I changed?' These phrases can hinder a relationship with their partner. It is best to avoid saying them."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya; 63)

2. Some sentences are less effective or inconsistent with formal language rules
   Example:
   "A university student who dreamed of entering a beauty pageant came to me. She had an attractive physique and face. Moreover, there seemed to be no apparent issues with her speech. Her voice was soft and stable. The problem was in her speech structure—it was disorganized. She was not used to thinking logically, so her words sounded disconnected."
   (Bicara Itu Ada Seninya)

   The phrase "... there seemed to be no apparent issues..." could be revised to "... it seemed there were no apparent issues..." for better clarity.

Conclusion

Overall, Bicara Itu Ada Seninya is a valuable resource for learning effective communication techniques and improving speaking skills. However, it is essential to note that not all techniques may suit every situation or audience. Readers should adapt and apply these methods based on their personal needs and contexts.